One Or The Other…. Part I

Keep these BIBLE Verses In Mind While I Blog For A Sec..1.Matthew 6:24 “No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other; you will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money. 2.Luke 16:13 “No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other; you will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.”

Hmmm… I’m About To REALLY Step On Some Toes, Lose Some Associates, Facebook Buddies, Myspace Buddies But I’m Not Stuntin It… GOD’s Word Was Made To Convict. So If It Cut You Just Wipe It Down, Bandage It Up, It’ll Heal : ) Oh, Just In Case You Didn’t Know, I’m No Where Near Perfect, I’m Not Judging, I’m Not A Holy Roller, I Don’t Think I’m Better Than The Next Person… But I Do Know Where I Came From, Where He’s Brought Me From, And Where I’m Going.

When It Comes To Speaking The Truth, I Love It!! Let me pose a question, and this is for all the believers of GOD. If Jesus was to really come back today, can you truthfully say you’re gonna leave with him? Before you answer that stand in the mirror and look at everything you’ve done in the past, and ask the question. Now, look at everything you’re doing now and ask that question.Over the past few years I believe a lot of folks (non-believers) don’t come to Christ, Church, or anything else pertaining to religion because of the way they see us CHRISTIANS Behaving. Think About This For A Minute. If Non Believers See Us Partying, Sexing, Smoking, Drinking, Cursing, Etc. Why Should They Get Saved When They Can Continue To Do What They Do And Not Worry About Having Folks Calling Them Hypocrites? On Some Real Stuff.. They Maybe The Ones To Make It In Heaven While We’re Standing On The Outside Looking In Saying “Lord I Went To Church, Bible Study, Sung In the Choir, Tithed, Prayed, Even Took A Family In” Etc. Luke 12:47,4847"And that slave who knew his master's will and did not get ready or act in accord with his will, will receive many lashes,48 but the one who did not know it, and committed deeds worthy of a flogging, will receive but few From everyone who has been given much, much will be required; and to whom they entrusted much, of him they will ask all the more.Peep This Out.. If You Already Know What The Word Says You Are Held Accountable, So Why Keep Disobeying What GOD Says?… Either Way If You Know Or Don't Know We're Getting A BEATING LOL!!Are there any saints out here even scared of GOD’s word? I Mean, We stay banging the copout lines: God Knows My Heart, Or He Will Forgive Me, Or My Favorite Right Here “I’M KEEPING IT REAL” LOL!! If It Ain’t What GOD Say Do It Ain’t Real (I’ know bad language but u gotta break it down for some folks) ABUSING Grace & Mercy is What I Call It.. Or For Lack Of Words Premeditated Sin (whew Thank you for that GOD I wasn’t even thinking of that but I like it).

Anyway Letz Get Back To The Topic..One Or The Other – Lukewarm – Two Masters.What Is This? Well the word clearly says “No Man Can Serve Two Masters”.. 1 Thing About That Is GOD Is A Jealous GOD So He Wants Everything That He Suppose To Get.. Two Masters Can Be, The World, TV, Radio, Family, Friends, Relationships.. Anything That Keeps Your Mind Off Of Giving Him The Honor & Praise. If You Are In The World Doing Your Thing & Shouting In Church On Sunday YOU’RE ON THE FENCE (lukewarm) I Encourage Everyone To Choose Who They Are Gonna Serve MAN (which is the World) Or GOD (who is the creator of the world)Revelations 3:15-1715 "I know your works: you are neither cold nor hot. Would that you were either cold or hot! 16So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth. 17 For you say, I am rich, I have prospered, and I need nothing, not realizing that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind, and naked.Itz In The Word Don’t Be Mad At Me LOL!! Anyway, To All My Folks That’s In Church ESPECIALLY Folks That Hold “Titles”: Leaders, Ministers, Pastors, Even Musicians.. Whether We Don’t Want The Title Of ROLE MODEL Or not It Has Been Giving To Us Because Of The Role We’re In.. We Have To Remember Folks Are Looking At Us And Are Waiting For The Day We Slip And Fall… Yeah We May Slip Into Sin Sometimes But The Key Is DON’T Marinate In It.. All The Nonsense We Do And Use The COPOUT Lines To Justify What We’re Doing Is Not Acceptable.. True Story: I Heard Some Youngins @ Church Say How Do These Leaders Expect Us To Follow Them And Not Party, Drink, Smoke, Sex, Etc. And They Post Pics On Myspace, Websites, Etc. Of Them Getting It In… Hmmm!! Datz Deep Right There. You Can’t Possibly Correct Someone If You Can’t Even Walk What You Talk.. I Bet You Didn’t Even Know That Your WALK Could Either Draw Someone To SALVATION Or Turn Them Away. Your relationship is your relationship with GOD and if he told you it was ok to do u, by all means don’t let this blog stop you. Remember GOD was sick and tired of people doing them datz why he destroyed the earth the 1st time.. I’m not trying to be better than anyone but there comes a time in your life where you got to say I’m tired of not living for GOD. I want the world to see the new me and say WOW what made you change.. I want my friends, family, coworkers, to know it’s not okf to do or say certain things around me.. If you have to go on a DIET.. Meaning Seperating Yourself From Those That Aren’t Going In The Same Direction You’re Going In.. DO IT!!A lot Of Us Are Holding On To Some Terrible Friendships, Relationships And Don’t Know How To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Time We Put In.. LOL, I Lost A lot Of What I THOUGHT Were Friends Even Family And It Hurt At First And Now I’m Like oh Well Funny Thing Is A LOT Of Them Got Themselves Together So We Have Rekindled And Have A New Relationship Feel me? : )Check this out.. I was having a conversation recently with someone and it was simply talking about foul language. How do I stop cursing? Here’s TCBTONY’s remedy. We ALL have someone in our life or surroundings that we would NEVER let them see our bad side.. In order to stop cursing act like that person is around you at all times and I’m willing to bet you how soon you’ll think twice before cursing. Substituting the word doesn’t work anymore LOL!! Try something new… STAY TUNED FOR PART II (it get’s deeper)

“The FALLBACK" (a woman’s heartbreak)

Aye Fellas..... I Gotta Do This One For My Ladies One Time!!

Here’s to all those women who used to be his main bun.

All the ladies who waited up all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning and be disappointed.



This is for the women who made it through that nasty & bitter break up, cried all night, wiped your own tears, and moved on with your life. Only to have him walk back in it a few months later like nothing ever happened.


This is for the women who cried on the first day you talked to him again because you knew exactly where this phone call was going.

This is for the women who listened to him say, I only want to be your friend, one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he love and misses you.

Do you deserve better? Sure you do, but it’s not going to be the way you want it because there’s no GOD in it. Of course you’re going to go through your ups and downs, but without GOD it’ll just be another relationship (no communication, no friendship, both people "doing them", arguments, etc.…


This is for those women that took him back, hoping that maybe this time, he’ll be different from the last time, hoping that maybe people really do change, listening to your friends tell you that you’ll be stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance , went through hell & hot water from your parents, and even snuck around (like you were a kid or better yet a robber KILT!!) to see him for a while. Word to the wise "keep your fam out of your personal business unless they really need to be there", oh and make sure that chapter is REALLY going to be closed before you bring your folks in *wink*

Now that you’re back together everything is great and on point because you made it a couple of weeks with no fights all over again. You started out thinking it would be just building on your friendship, and you ended up falling in love with him again. You wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell you he love you, and that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time.

Finally when you hear it, it was like you were dreaming.

Does this sound like you yet?

This is for the women who believed what he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days. Here’s for the tears cried and dried all over again. You wanted so desperately to believe that he would really possibly call you at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early.

Over the years women have trained themselves to believe the lies because they wanted to believe that they had found "the one". Not only that but you have also learned to SETTLE for someone who didn’t treat you the way you should be treated.

This is for those women who got their hair all DID UP, nice new clothes, shoes & perfume, only to hear him say that he couldn’t see you today. This is for those women who never believed it when people told them there might be someone else. In your heart you’re like DAMN (and I said it lol) I can’t believe that he could do this to me again

This is for those women who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldn’t bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder "what if".

THE REBOUND CHICK BEGINS HERE

This is for those women who stayed up all night long listening to him whine about an ex girlfriend who cheated on him, and cried during the entire conversation.

This is for those women who hoped he would realize that he deserved better, that he deserved you. When he said that he loved you, but he was in love with her, he didn’t mean it.

This is for those women that somehow managed to get him to forget about his ex, and got him to tell you that he was in love with you again, only to have him tell you three weeks later that "things were going too fast, he needs time."

This is for those women that couldn’t cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt.

This is for those of you women who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again.

This is for those women who couldn’t bear to even tell their mother what was going on, for fear of an "I told you so." The ones that could just TELL that they had made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts and their dreams again.

You knew you deserved better the entire time, but you settle for the guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see you whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about you.

You just wanted the one that your feelings were tied into.

This is for those women that FINALLY realized that he never cared about them., for the time that he broke your heart again, for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, and the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment.

This is for those women who finally realized that you deserve better, for those confusing days, when you missed him, and want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around you. Stay strong, and remember that "relationships are like broken glass, sometimes it’s better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together and get hurt". ~TCBTONY

Remember the times you’ve cried, and how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that. Everytime "your song" come on the radio (turn the station). When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tries calling, (ignore his call). When he tries coming to your house, (don’t answer the door). Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the HELL he was. Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it felt to your stomach when you saw it wasn’t him, and realized that once again, he hadn’t called when he said he was going to. One day, you’ll find a man who’s worth all the tears, but he won’t make you cry. Unless they’re happy tears : ) You may think that you’ll never care about someone like you did your EX that you always ran back to, but you will. It’s going to hurt because you’re human and it will need time to heal, but the point is, IT WILL HEAL. And please LET IT HEAL because sometimes good men become the rebound dude and it’s not a good feeling..

Here’s the part where I want to encourage all you WOMEN to trust GOD, let your life line up according to the way that he (meaning GOD) would have it and he’ll give you the desires of your heart : ) Don’t forget the man has to find you, so don’t you go looking… Also, don’t give him the physical appearance to go off on because that will only lead to SEX!!!

This is for the women who fell back in love with their ex, only to get hurt all over again.

I’m Not Male Bashing But Fellas We Gotta Step Our Game Up!!!

Please don’t forget to pass this on if it inspired you

I swear I need to be a counselor or write a book, you couldn’t imagine all the relationships I helped save or helped people get out of ~TCBTONY